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Classroom Management without a Voice

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

It’s that time of year again when it seems everyone’s getting sick – including me. Just last week, I caught one of those little chest colds that started as a tiny cough and transitioned into such a painful throat that I couldn’t speak.

I didn’t feel too bad. It just hurt to speak. So I wrote that on the board and tried to make it through the day. I could barely manage a whisper.

Something really interesting began to happen. I’d been able to hoarsely give my directions for the day and then let the students work independently on their tasks. When a student asked a question, though, more often than not, that student would whisper to me.

It was as if my inability to speak somehow encouraged the students to speak very quietly too! I chuckled to myself as I listened to the students whisper their questions to me and speak in whispers to each other.

The classes went surprisingly smoothly and the students were able to accomplish quite a bit without my direct instruction. I’m not sure if it was because they were being sensitive to the fact that I wasn’t feeling 100% or if it was simply because we’ve been working together long enough that they don’t need me every step of the way.

Regardless, it was nice to be reminded that you don’t always have to raise your voice to be heard. Sometimes speaking quietly is the loudest way to be heard.

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Class Management – What Key Phrases Do You Use?

Thursday, February 26, 2009

“Do you need me to fuss at you to get you to behave?”

“Do you know what is expected of you when you come in my room?”

“This is a great opportunity to practice your listening skills.”

I think every teacher develops a short list of key phrases they turn to time and time again.  I know I do.  In different situations for different reasons, these key phrases can help a class regain its composure without you losing yours.  I guess that’s why they call them “key phrases.”

“Do you need help controlling yourself?” … with the follow-up, “…because I can help you if you need it.”

“Focus please.”

“Having trouble focusing?”  …again, with the follow-up, “…because I can help you if you need it.”

I think why these powerful classroom management phrases help my students is because they are aware of my clear expectations and my clear consequences when they don’t meet those expectations.

What are some of your key class management phrases?  I’d love to hear them!

Darren Barkett

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One of the nicest gifts I’ve ever received!

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

This has nothing to do with classroom management.  I’ll just get that out in the open. But it made me smile, so I thought I’d pass it along.  We all need to smile more, right?

I drink a lot of water during the course of my day (I hope you do too!).  I found that it helps me be more patient and effective with my students (and my family when I get home).  Recently I found some canned bubbly water that has no calories but is really refreshing- no this isn’t an ad for them.  I started drinking them and found them wonderful, except when they got warm.

So I made a little can cooler out of an old styrofoam cup I’d had lying around.  I cut that cup up and put it back together with duct tape to fashion an ugly little can cooler/coozie/hugger/whatever your region calls those things.  It wasn’t pretty, but it worked.

Just this Monday, one of my quiet but smiley students came up to me at the beginning of class and whispered, “I’ve got something for you in my locker.  Can I go get it?” She disappeared and reappeared moments later with the cutest little can cooler I’ve ever seen!  It was in the shape of one of those aloha floral print button up shirts, complete with short sleeves, bright green with white flowers all over itl, and it fit my cans perfectly.  I was so excited, as excited as only a teacher gets at these little moments of extreme thoughtfullness from his students.

I couldn’t help but show it off to all my students that day, who were appropriately unimpressed but smiled at how impressed I was.  And I took it with me to lunch to show off at the teacher table.  I couldn’t help myself from taking some slow, ostentatious drinks with my new can cooler.  I don’t really think the others were envious, but I sure acted as if they should be!

Teaching can be tough, and sometimes, it’s the littlest things that can make your day.  Now, every time I take a sip from my canned water, I can’t help but smile.

Darren B.

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I won’t smile ’till Christmas! Class Management Failures pt. 2

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

It always amazes me to hear teachers steeling themselves at the start of the year by saying, “I’m not going to smile until Christmas!”…as if their resolve to be unfriendly will help them with their classroom management problems.

This couldn’t be further from the truth.  Teachers who use fear tactics to manage student behavior will find their task of educating their students much more difficult.  Students naturally want to succeed, and when you’re the only adult in the classroom, these students will want to share their successes with you.  If you are unaproachable and distant from your students, you will find that over time, your students’ performance and motivation will decrease.

I take the opposite approach.  I smile broadly, especially when I’m feeling a bit stressed out by my students behaviors.  I find that when the students see your refusal to become flustered, over time they will stop trying to get you flustered.  When your students see that you approach a defiant student will a calm yet firm manner and a distinct refusal to become upset, your students defiant behavior will decrease.

I think what teachers are trying to say by their refusal to smile is that they are going to be very strict in the classroom.  I have no problem with strictness or, as I like to say it, consistency.  In fact, consistency must be the foundation of any classroom management system.

It’s when you combine your consistent implementation of your class management system with a calm, peaceful, and happy demeanor that you will be able to motivate your students to be their best.

Darren Barkett

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The Empty Threat Syndrome – Class Management Failures pt. 1

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

For the next couple of posts, I want to take a moment to highlight some of the classic classroom management failures that plague many teachers.  Heck, I’ve been guilty of some of these as well.  And it’s usually the source of frustration for me, those moments when I failed as an effective classroom manager.  I end up going home thinking over that situation over and over and over, regretting a split decision or a comment made that can’t be taken back.

The classic class management failure I first want to speak of is the “Empty Threat Syndrome.”  If you set up a consequence for your student dependent on their behavior, you better follow through with your threat.  If you tell that student that you’re going to call that student’s parents if their behavior doesn’t improve, you better call that mom the next time that student doesn’t meet your class behavior expectations.

If you habitually threaten your students with some sort of consequence and you don’t deliver on your promise, what are you teaching your students about you as a teacher?  What are you saying about your word, your promises, as a teacher?  Is that what you’re trying to communicate to the students?  It seems like common sense, but in the thick of a stressful classroom management moment, if you don’t have a solid classroom management plan, many teachers fall back on the “old standby” – empty threats.

This just highlights the need for all teachers to have a simple and effective classroom management plan.  When you have a plan in place, it’s easy to avoid getting into the “Empty Threat Syndrome.”  With a solid class management system, you no longer need to threaten.  At most, you would need to remind students of expectations and consequences.  But once you’ve taught these class behavior expectations and consequences, you no longer need to threaten.

All you do then is consistently implement your behavior management system.

Coming next… “The Inconsistent Implementor”  A shocking tale in one part of a teacher torn asunder!

Thanks for coming around.

Darren B.

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These students are the worst ever!

Thursday, August 28, 2008

They just keep getting worse and worse!

Have you ever heard a teacher say that?  If so, run in the other direction!  A teacher who has resigned himself or herself to seeing the students as getting worse and worse just hasn’t realized that the only thing getting worse and worse is that teacher.

My experience has been that it only takes one or two students to jade how you look at your entire year.  But for the most part, the students all want to succeed.  The vast majority of students want to do well.  It then becomes a matter of motivating the class to do what you want them to do and minimizing the negative impact of those very few students who simply won’t buy-in to your class.

The teacher who let’s their perspective be perpetually focused on those few negative students misses so much of what makes teaching great- those precious students who really are inspired by what you’re doing in the classroom, those students who look forward to a kind word from you all day, those students who take the time to write you a nice note telling you how much you’ve meant to him or her.

Wouldn’t you rather have your perspective of your students crafted by those positive moments instead of dwelling on those few negative students?  Wouldn’t you rather enjoy your teaching job instead of dreading getting up in the morning?

Each year it seems my students are getting better and better.  Could that be possible?  I hope so, because that means next year is going to be awesome!

Darren B.

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What is the most important first lesson of the year?

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

More than almost anything else you can do as a teacher, the first lesson you should teach is really quite simple.  It won’t take you long to plan it.  It won’t even take long to teach it.  But failing to teach this simple lesson can doom you to another year of frustration.

What am I talking about?

It’s quite simple.  You must teach your students how to listen.

Yes, you read that correctly.  The first lesson you teach your students needs to be how to listen in your classroom.  Can’t you hear your students already?  “I already know how to listen!”

But, as we all know, hearing and listening are two entirely different things.  Hearing happens unconsciously.  Listening takes an active thought process to happen.

If you don’t teach your students how to listen, you’ll spend so much of your year repeating yourself to your students that you won’t be nearly as effective as you could be.

How many times have you taken the time to give very clear directions for a class lesson and then told the students to get to work, only to have a student or two say, “What are we doing?”

Clearly that student wasn’t listening.  Yes, he or she might have heard you, but the active listening process just wasn’t happening.

Yes, our students should know how to listen.  It seems silly that we, as professionals, would need to teach our students such a simple concept.  But take it from me.  When I look back on the two years I spent teaching without having taught my students how to listen, I remember so many more frustrating moments than in the following years when I took the fifteen minutes to cover this vital lesson.

So, how do you teach your students to listen?

My free online classroom management videos will walk you through the process.  Just click on the following link to be taken to our class management video download center.

Classroom Management Videos

Don’t make the mistake so many struggling teachers are making.  Take the time to teach your students how to listen.  It will make all the difference for you this year.

 Darren

 

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