Here I am, like so many of you out there, suffering through your final days of the year. Here in North Carolina, we’ve already had our end of the year tests and our grades have already been turned in. Typically, this is the time of the year when our students start unraveling, sometimes more than just a bit… Now my homeroom students this year have been just fantastic. I wish I could keep them all day. We could work on a loosely organized project for hours and have a great time together.
But some of my other classes…Well, they can get a bit trying. I often find myself getting a bit uptight at these changes in my students’ behaviors. I want to jump all over them and fuss at them and tell them how disappointed I am with their behavior.
But then I remember. It’s the end of the year! We’ve only got a few days left together! As long as they aren’t being unsafe or hurtful to others, then perhaps I can take a different approach. Perhaps I can try just smiling and laughing and *gasp* relaxing a bit with them.
If figured it was worth a try. And wouldn’t you know, they actually became better behaved. Instead of taking my more relaxed attitude as a sign that they could continue to behave inappropriately, most of my students showed better behavior. Their behaviors actually improved.
I really like being able to relax with my students at the end of the year. All too often we get caught up in all these last minute tasks that take so long to accomplish that we get a bit grumpy. But if we can just remember that our students will remember us more for how we are on these last days of school that we were throughout the last 180 days, it might make it a bit easier to…relax and enjoy these last moments with our students.
Darren